|If you love something, set it free. if it comes back, it will always be yours. if it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with.|
But, if it just sits in your living room, messes up your stuff, eats your food, uses your telephone, takes your money and doesn't appear to realize you had set it free...
You either married it or gave birth to it...
Never go to sleep angry because you never know is you,
or the person you are mad at, will wake up the next morning.
Always forgive someone because you never know
if you'll get the chance to talk to them again.
Things will happen, get over them.
Forgiving doesn't mean you have to forget and it's better than
knowing you will never speak or say I Love You again.
I've learned the hard way that I can't always count on others to respect my feelings, even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn't guarantee that others will be good people too. You only have control over yourself and how you choose to be as a person.
As for others, you can only choose to accept them or walk away.
Someday we'll forget about the hurt, the reasons we cried and who caused us pain. We will finally realize that the secret to being free is not revenge, but letting things unfold in their own way and own time. After all, what matters is not the first, but the last chapter of our lives which will show how well we ran the race. So smile, laugh, forgive, believe and love all over again.
The sad truth is that there are some people who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave.
The good news is, if you tough it out, you'll eventually weed these people out of your life and be left with some great people you can count on. We rarely lose friends and lovers, we just gradually figure out who our real ones are.